<div class=\"msgheader\">QUOTE:</div><div class=\"msgborder\"><b>以下是引用<i>展望2008</i>在2008-4-24 16:43:00的发言:</b><br/>
<p style=\"TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16.5pt\"><span style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana\">第一:你们彼此都是对方最好的朋友,不带任何条件的,喜欢与对方在一起。</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; FONT-FAMILY: ??\"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = \"urn:schemas-microsoft-com[s:10]ffice[s:10]ffice\" /><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style=\"TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16.5pt\"><span style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana\">第二:彼此很容易沟通、互相可以很敞开地坦白任何事情,而不必担心被对方怀疑或轻视。</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; FONT-FAMILY: ??\"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style=\"TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16.5pt\"><span style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana\">第三:两人在心灵上有共同的理念和价值观,并且对这些观念有清楚的认识与追求。</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; FONT-FAMILY: ??\"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style=\"TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16.5pt\"><span style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana\">第四:你们都认为婚姻是一辈子的事,而且双方</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana\">(</span><span style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana\">特别强调</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana\">“</span><span style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana\">双方</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana\">”)</span><span style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana\">都坚定地愿意委身在这个长期的婚姻关系中。</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; FONT-FAMILY: ??\"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style=\"TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16.5pt\"><span style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana\">第五:当发生冲突或争执的时候可以一起来解决,而不是等以后才来发作。</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana\"> <o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style=\"TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16.5pt\"><span style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana\">第六:相处可以彼此逗趣,常有欢笑,在生活中许多方面都会以幽默相待。</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; FONT-FAMILY: ??\"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style=\"TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16.5pt\"><span style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana\">第七:彼此非常了解,并且接纳对方,你知道对方了解你的优点和缺点,仍然确信</span><span style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana\"> </span><span style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana\">你是被他所接纳。</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; FONT-FAMILY: ??\"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style=\"TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16.5pt\"><span style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana\">第八:从最认识你,也是你所最信任的人之处,得到支持和肯定。</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; FONT-FAMILY: ??\"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p style=\"TEXT-INDENT: 24pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 16.5pt\"><span style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; mso-ascii-font-family: Verdana; mso-hansi-font-family: Verdana\">第九:有时你们会有浪漫的感情,但绝大多数的时候,你们的相处是非常满足而且自在的。</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: #252525; FONT-FAMILY: ??\"><o:p></o:p></span></p></div>
<p>如果9个条件都满足的话,这样做知己比较好,千万别做配偶,一定要做的话,相信不到一个月就闹离婚<br/></p>
[此贴子已经被作者于2008-5-7 1:30:46编辑过] |