[原创]1份悲伤，2份快乐。

<p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; BACKGROUND: aqua; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">原创文章，如有问题，我如一一回复。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; BACKGROUND: aqua; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; BACKGROUND: aqua; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; BACKGROUND: aqua; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体;">◆ </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; BACKGROUND: aqua; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 方正大标宋简体; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma;">哲理短文 <span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 32.15pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma;">1</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma;">份悲伤，</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma;">2</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma;">份快乐</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma;"><p></p></span></b></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma;">有一个故事：说一个女孩，遗失了一个心爱的发夹，一直闷闷不乐，茶饭不思，不久就病了。她的老师知道后，来探病时问她：“如果让你掉了一个发夹后，你会不会再大意遗失另一个发夹呢？”女孩回答：“当然不会，我会小心翼翼地保存它。”老师又问：“那你为何要让自己在掉了一个发夹之后，又丢掉了快乐，甚至还赔上了健康呢？”女孩如大梦初醒一般，说：“对！我不能再损失下去，把我损失的快乐跟健康都赚回来。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma;">生活总是会给我们带来许多的启示，</span><span lang="ZH" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH;">幸福</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">快乐的生活</span><span lang="ZH" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH;">是我们每个人一生的追求</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">，</span><span lang="ZH" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH;">拥有一份好心情难道不是我们最大的</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">追求</span><span lang="ZH" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH;">吗？世间事物本身并无好坏之分，全在当事人怎么看，当我们面对一件事物的时候，学会</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">了</span><span lang="ZH" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH;">保持乐观豁达的心态，而</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">不是</span><span lang="ZH" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH;">自寻烦恼</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">，事情也就变得简洁明了。</span><span lang="ZH" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH;">生活需要学会调节，别让世俗的尘埃蒙蔽了眼，别让太多的功利</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">和世俗的观念</span><span lang="ZH" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH;">给心灵套上沉重的枷锁，你就会发现，好心情，只</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">需</span><span lang="ZH" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH;">你把</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">心</span><span lang="ZH" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-language: ZH;">放飞出来！</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";">悲伤少一点，快乐多一点，生命就更灿烂一点。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 28pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0;"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman";"></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 14pt;"><p></p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; 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[此贴子已经被作者于2008-3-5 9:50:16编辑过]

呵呵，唯心主义者。不过，我很赞同。

寻找快乐必须要放宽心！

<p><font color=\"#ee11c2\" size=\"4\">说得有些牵强，不过也算是寻找快乐的一种方式吧。</font></p><p><font color=\"#2292dd\" size=\"4\">而现实中，不是想心情好就可以好的，因为这是现实，有太多人为以外的事情，有太多意想不到的惊和喜，喜怒哀乐是人之常情，他们如果丧失了平行，人就会开始崩溃，所以，我们有时大笑，有时哭泣。</font></p>

<p>说起来很容易，做起来却有点难，我比较赞同楼上的说法。</p>

做人有时不能太执着!

我赞同，太执着就容易走进死胡同里出不来！

<div class=\"msgheader\">QUOTE:</div><div class=\"msgborder\"><b>以下是引用<i>YHC</i>在2008-3-7 11:42:00的发言：</b><br/>我赞同，太执着就容易走进死胡同里出不来！</div><p></p>[em04]谢谢