[转帖]一日为师，终生受骂

<h3>        古语：一日为师，终身为父。今天却变成了“一日为师，终生受骂”。不是吗？教学严格的老师会让年幼的不懂事的学生恨之入骨，教学宽松的老师又会让长大成人的学生计较一生。教师实在处于极为可悲的处境。　<br/>        首先是社会。应试教育是最近几年教师头上顶戴的新的骂名。谁也不曾注意到，作为教育第一线的老师们无权取消考试，却不得不保留挨骂的权利，被骂：禁锢学生的思维；侵犯学生的权利；伤害家长的感情！可是又有谁知道现在的考试不仅在考学生，而且在考老师！　老师的水平，素质，能力甚至生计都由考试决定，而社会却无视这些。只是盯着一考定终身而大骂特骂！有良好品质的学生大家不会提，一旦出现一个不好的就是教师有不可推卸的责任！难道老师的谆谆教诲没有任何作用？好的素质只是他们自身的自发表现？<br/>　    教师作为一种人，他们的生存状态是极为可悲的。自身必须要德高为师，身正为范。这就是说社会要求他们在精神上要是一个完人——时时刻刻要警惕自己为人师表的形象，万万不可放松对自己的自我约束。而在物质上，他们一向是贫寒的表率，而且必须是两袖清风方才称得上是师德典范。社会上允许靠山吃山，靠水吃水，当权者可以有一部分人鱼肉百姓,趋利者可以构成大鱼吃小鱼，小鱼吃虾米的食物链，而教师却不可以商业化——因为它必须保持着那一份圣洁与庄严，可是，社会给了她庄严了吗？社会允许书商肆虐，家教横行，允许自由竞争，学校也必须有好差之分。可是，如果一切学问都可以让辅导书、补习班来冲击，那有何必去用这么多的资金去供养那些一无是处的教师呢？　<br/>        其次是家长。社会上不是指责教师，就是棒喝教师，却对尊重教师无能为力！这样的社会现状直接导致了家长对教师的种种要求：教师要负责孩子的成长、教育、思想、状态甚至安全等等。甚至一些本应由家长行使的监护责任也成了教师的事情。谁会去想，一个班主任除了要去管理几十名学生外，他还要进行正常的教学任务。而我们知道，只有一个孩子的家长们对自己孩子的管教是多么的头疼！然而，大家似乎在思想意识中形成了一种怪圈——这些神经敏感、养尊处优的孩子一放到教师那里就会乖巧可人的。事实又是怎样呢？要知道教师不是保姆，不是家长，它只是传道、授业、解惑的老师啊！为了督促学生的学习，教师有时要面对家长的冷脸；为了他人孩子的健康成长，教师有时要容忍家长的白眼；为了保护学生的安全，教师有时要承受家长的指责。诸如乱收费，那是教师所能决定的事情吗？诸如补课，那是教师自愿放弃假期吗？社会上的大环境逼迫教师不得不流着汗水生存，谁又为他们喊过冤屈呢？　<br/>        再次是教师的上司们，他们在那里异想天开，今天提出一套方案，明天又做出一个指示，而第一线的教师必须立即跟上，稍有差迟，一大堆的批评与呼吁就会接踵而至。就像减负，狂喊着减负的人却不能取消考试，结果让每一个教师变成了超人——既忙着能力素质的培养，又应付难度一点不减的考试。结果学生非但没有减负，反而增加了新的烦恼——对提高个人素质的无所适从。而教师也同样在教学餐桌上又要精心准备一盘素质大餐，而且必须做的精美而实用。这是教育家们尚未实现的方案，却很可笑的扔给了在多重压力下生存的教师们完成！难怪最近又提出了“减负减负，后果自负”！想必是教育家们也不知如何收场了只好将皮球又丢给了当初尽心尽力去减负的教师们了。<br/>　     还有的就是教师天天要面对的学生们。他们是温室中长大的一代，造就了极为敏感的性格。教师不能再像以前那样说一是一了，也不能再捧出严师出高徒的古训了，他们必须是愉快教学，鼓励教学，甚至是哄着学，求着学。否则，伟大的祖国的花朵和未来就会以死相逼；否则，他们就会举起社会上多如牛毛的保护伞向教师开炮！大家不知怎样理解，一个从心理到外在都裹着厚厚的铠甲的学生，教师怎么好走入他的内心世界去教育他呢？<br/>　    都说“玉不琢，不成器”，面对一块天然的璞玉，我们意味的将它包裹、珍藏是没有意义的。要想让它成器，我们必须要用锋利的刻刀，细心地、一点一点地刻划，要用各种各样的工具去打磨、去雕琢，才可以让它成为一件极富有价值的艺术品，极有用处的器具。在这个过程中，璞玉一定是很痛苦的。教师教育学生也是这个道理，不知为何那么多人会不明白？哪里有舒舒服服就成功的人呀？教师每天朝七晚五地工作，才可以让自己的学生成为人才，成为国家的栋梁啊！而同时，学生也要付出代价，这样才可以算成功的教育啊！<br/>　     好一个“人类灵魂的工程师”！对于塑造人的灵魂，每一个人都知道它的艰难，那就请各位把指责的手指，鄙夷的眼神，无情的批评从教师的身上移开吧！不要再对他们一味施压了！　<br/></h3>

<p>顶</p><p>现代社会的普遍现象！！</p>

<span class=\"font\"><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">其实在我看来</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">我觉得现在教师最不想教书的原因不仅仅是因为工资得不到保障</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">而是因为得不到社会</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">家庭的肯定</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">甚至得不到学生的尊重</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">曾记得有一位老师说过</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">:</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">我们是教师</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">要教会学生怎么去尊重别人</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">但到头来却没教会学生尊重自己</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">真可悲</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">.</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">这是出自一名在教育事业上贡献了三十多年老教师之口</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">他一直是一名默默在教育前线献出自己一生的人</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">连他也说出这样的话</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">你可以想象一下情况恶劣到什么地步</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">...</span></span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\"><br style=\"mso-special-character: line-break;\"/><br style=\"mso-special-character: line-break;\"/></span>

<span class=\"font\"><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">有时候在想教育真的那么不重要吗</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">?</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">为什么社会乃至于国家对教育投放的精力和物质都没有到位</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">?</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">难道就不能想象为什么中国的教育比不上国外</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">?</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">那问题就出现在教育的制度</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">也许看到这段话很多人都会觉得是老师的责任</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">但难道就沒有人觉得也是每个家庭</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">整个社会的责任吗</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">?</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">别把责任推到教师的身上</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">那是不负责任的表现</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">...</span></span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\"><br style=\"mso-special-character: line-break;\"/><br style=\"mso-special-character: line-break;\"/></span>

这么严重？

这篇文章写出了这个社会对老师态度的普遍现象。想想老师真难当，曾经也有人评论说：老师是现代版宫女。真可悲！

<div class=\"msgheader\">QUOTE:</div><div class=\"msgborder\"><b>以下是引用<i>Spring</i>在2007-7-24 21:50:00的发言：</b><br/>老师是现代版宫女。真可悲！</div><p>现代版宫女？什么概念来的啊。。。</p>

老师是现代版宫女????????没有听说过哦!为什么这样说呢?

<div class=\"msgheader\">QUOTE:</div><div class=\"msgborder\"><b>以下是引用<i>非男</i>在2007-7-24 18:30:00的发言：</b><br/><span class=\"font\"><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">其实在我看来</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">我觉得现在教师最不想教书的原因不仅仅是因为工资得不到保障</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">而是因为得不到社会</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">家庭的肯定</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">甚至得不到学生的尊重</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">曾记得有一位老师说过</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">:</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">我们是教师</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">要教会学生怎么去尊重别人</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">但到头来却没教会学生尊重自己</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">真可悲</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">.</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">这是出自一名在教育事业上贡献了三十多年老教师之口</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">他一直是一名默默在教育前线献出自己一生的人</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">连他也说出这样的话</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">,</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 新細明體; mso-ascii-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-hansi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-bidi-font-family: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">你可以想象一下情况恶劣到什么地步</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\">...</span></span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: \"Times New Roman\"; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體;\"><br style=\"mso-special-character: line-break;\"/><br style=\"mso-special-character: line-break;\"/></span></div><p>其实医生也一样。</p>

<div class=\"msgheader\">QUOTE:</div><div class=\"msgborder\"><b>以下是引用<i>云飘故里</i>在2007-7-26 12:23:00的发言：</b><br/><p>其实医生也一样。</p></div><p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 30pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.5; mso-char-indent-size: 12.0pt;\"><font size=\"3\"><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"COLOR: #0055ff; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;\">改变不了环境，那為有调整心境了。众所周知，环境不易改变，压力仍会长期存在，甚至还会愈演愈烈。与其寄希望于主管部门的介入和社会舆论的转向，不如寄希望于自己心态的调整，这无疑显得更为现实、更为有效。要学庄子既能入世，又能出世，少些</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"COLOR: #0055ff; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;\">“</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"COLOR: #0055ff; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;\">执着和认真</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"COLOR: #0055ff; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;\">”</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"COLOR: #0055ff; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;\">，多些</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"COLOR: #0055ff; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;\">“</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"COLOR: #0055ff; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;\">放弃和糊涂</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"COLOR: #0055ff; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;\">”</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"COLOR: #0055ff; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;\">。要知道事业诚可贵，生命价更高，外在压力再大，内在压力却不能太大，不妨用淡然、坦然、悠然去做些减法，以求实现工作和健康（心理和生理）的和谐。此所谓，求人不如求己，嘿，别样的减法</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"COLOR: #0055ff; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;\">——“</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"COLOR: #0055ff; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;\">以柔克刚</span><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"COLOR: #0055ff; FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: SimSun;\">”</span><span lang=\"ZH-CN\" style=\"COLOR: #0055ff; FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: Tahoma; mso-hansi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-bidi-font-family: Tahoma; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;\">！</span></font><span lang=\"EN-US\" style=\"mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN;\"><p></p></span></p>

你们的经验之谈啊，我觉得我比你们好点点哦~工作对于我有没有都无所谓的，有反而拖了我的时间呢？？~不过我也羡慕你们的，因为你们都好充实。其实我觉得现在的社会真的好恐怖啊，我不知道怎么样去适应它，我害怕现实我不想去面对，可是整天的都活的没有一点意义我也不想再过这样的生活，所以我要坚强面对生活

辛苦你们了，敬爱的教师们

<p>文天详说．人身自古谁无死．留取丹心照汉青．</p><p>付出了想得到回报是很难的．</p>